In Memoriam: Grant Thomas Selfridge (1947–2026)
The US Rugby Foundation mourns the loss of longtime rugby icon Grant Thomas Selfridge, who passed away on February 10, 2026, surrounded by family in Sarasota, Florida. Tom was a beloved player, visionary leader, generous community builder, and a pillar of American rugby whose influence will be felt for generations.
Tom’s journey in rugby began quite by chance in the summer of 1969, when a trip to a hardware store led to his first encounter with rugby and a lifelong passion that helped shape the sport in the United States. Over a remarkable playing career, he competed in 732 matches across 19 states and 10 countries, captaining local clubs and earning national selection.
As a standout athlete, he was a three‑sport star at Gilmour Academy in Gates Mills, Ohio, and went on to play fullback for the University of Cincinnati Bearcats football team before dedicating himself to rugby.
Tom became an influential leader off the field as well: he served as president of multiple clubs and unions including the Cleveland Blues, Schenectady Reds, Windhover RFC, and the Eastern Rugby Union, and held key administrative roles that shaped the growth of rugby across the Eastern United States.
In 1982, Tom founded Windhover RFC and developed Windhover Park in Rexford, New York, a 110‑acre venue with 10 full‑size rugby fields that became a central hub for U.S. rugby events, including national championships and regional tournaments.
In recognition of his extraordinary contributions to the sport, Tom was honored with the Craig Sweeney Award in 1980, an accolade celebrating those who exemplify excellence and service in rugby. In 2014, he was inducted into the U.S. Rugby Hall of Fame, joining the nation’s most distinguished figures in the sport.
Beyond rugby, Tom was known for his leadership in business and community service. He served on numerous boards, including Junior Achievement, 15 Love, the Rotary Club of Schenectady, and the UAlbany Foundation, and was a devoted family man who found joy sailing on Lake George and spending time with loved ones.
Tom is survived by his wife, Kerry Selfridge; daughter Emily; stepsons Nick and Jack Prestigiacomo; his children Heidi D’Andraia, Wendy Clark, Megan Selfridge, and Thomas Selfridge; and twelve grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, John and Jane Selfridge, and his brothers John and Andrew.
The US Rugby Foundation extends its deepest condolences to Tom’s family, friends, and the countless members of the rugby community whose lives he touched. His legacy, in the growth of the game, the strength of community, and the spirit of service, will endure. A celebration of life is planned for Spring 2026 in Upstate New York.
